I have a friend I’ve known since I was a little, confused fourteen year old. We’ve been like sisters for years and since then, I’ve come out. She says she supports my “choice”
but doesn’t want to talk about sex or politics.
Even if I table the “choice” issue (she’s still kind of confused with how I could “give up” men and a “normal life”),
I’m still stuck about how to proceed with our friendship. Continue reading
Dear Miss Matters,
I’ve only had one real significant relationship in my life. While I’d been in love before this particular man came along, he is the first person who has reciprocated my feelings and started a formal relationship with me. The experience, while not without its problems, has been amazing. No trust issues, no coercion, but magical romance and dogged support at times of my life when the closest of friends and even family turned tail. After several years dating him, I think he is the man of my life. Things on his end are the same. I mean that he feels like I’m the person he’d like to spend his life with. I’m his first real relationship too, though he did date a little in his teens whereas I didn’t at all. We discuss and plan ahead, both dreamily when it comes to future dreams and hopes and with our heads on tight when we talk finances and stability. Continue reading